OMG! This is so TRUE..I have never read anything like this before..Ya know, something that describes me from A to Z....I guess my closest buds know the real me; like how sensitive I can be at times and how much I care about my loved ones...I'm sharing this with you guys coz I want you to get a clearer picture of who I truly am....Enjoy.. :)
Have you met a
CANCERIAN woman recently? Are you a little confused as to what she really is - chirpy or somber or distant? She is all of these and still, she is none of these..More confused? A Cancerian woman has
mood swings every now and then and these are some of her mood swings only. However, her basic personality traits remain the same. She is very
sensitive, emotional, kind and caring. Now's the catch! Most of her traits will be hidden behind a shell of indifference and aloofness.
You will have to gently coerce a Cancerian girl to get out of that shell and come into the big bad world without it. The best time to do this is in the moonlight, when there are maximum changes of catching her in her true emotions.
When in love, she will be tender, womanly, timid and modest.
She dislikes criticisms, can't stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. A Cancer woman will never make the first move in a relationship; she only knows how to make backwards or sideways..
This is because of two reasons, her shyness and the fear of being rejected. She
loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too. This female has some secrets and she wont like your prying around her personal diaries. She is
very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. It doesn't matter if she is the current 'Miss Universe' or has men drooling over her all the time. It is your attention and appreciation she is the most concerned about. A Cancer female is a
great cook and makes better food than a five-star hotel chef.
However you will have to learn to live with her mood swings, which is not so difficult since she is so good in every other way. She is
extremely loyal and will keep you happy with her warm and rich humor. Once she is committed to you, she will remain yours forever and ever. Adultery is not one of the traits of her characteristics profile. With a Cancerian woman, you will always have to be careful with words. She is
very sentimental and can get hurt very easily. Then, she can cry like a two-year old baby..
You will be expected to console her and wipe her tears. Cancerian women are
quite careful with money. Neither they will be stingy, not totally extravagant. They have a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money or old buttons or empty jars. They also carefully save things that have a sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on their fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However,
she is not too possessive or jealous. But she does not like sharing her love..She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have the
desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don't forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. Then it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self.
She will want to be told time and again that she is still desirable and you still need her. However, she is
not weak and is completely capable of looking after herself. Infact, she is one of those who
sacrifice all that they have, for the loved ones. She just needs some spoiling after every few days. A Cancerian woman maybe fragile as far as her feelings are concerned, but when you need her, she will be as strong as the 'Rock Of Gibraltar'. She will also be
very protective over her children and make them feel completely secure.
They will be the center of her universe and she will pamper them with her love, affection and care. The children will also be very close to her and no matter how much far they go from home, they will come back to her and she knows this. A Cancer female
always needs you, but she will
never get too aggressive. She knows that you may leave for a while, to follow your dreams, but in the end, she is the one you will come back to. Then, you will find her as charming as before, waiting for you with freshly baked bread and hot soup. She will feed you, listen to your worries and make you smile again.... :)
xoxo
It has been said before that you must first learn to love yourself before you can ever completely love another person. We must learn to accept ourselves as we are. 
